Valentines Day 2023

"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind."

~William Shakespeare.

VALENTINE'S DAY is an annual holiday celebrated on FEBRUARY 14^TH worldwide. The holiday, also called Feast of Saint Valentine or Saint Valentine's Day, allows people to celebrate friendship, show admiration, express romantic love, and appreciate each other.

People, both young and old, celebrate Valentine's Day by sending messages of love and affection to their partners, friends, and family. They also share treats and romantic dinners, send flowers and cards to one another, and spend quality time together to honor love.

What's the Story Behind Valentine's Day?

When you think of Valentine's Day, you probably envision red roses, sentimental cards, flower bouquets, sweet and chocolate treats, and heart-shaped balloons. You are right! But have you ever thought about where the tradition began? The truth is Valentine's Day celebrations Day dates back to ancient Rome.

The original story of Valentine's Day is a bit more mysterious and lacks the babbly feel experienced in the contemporary iteration of the holiday. Historians cannot locate the origin of the holiday but believe that it could have stemmed from the ancient festival of Lupercalia, which predated Christianity. Lupercalia was held in mid-February to celebrate love and fertility rites, including pairing women with men by lottery. 

Valentine's Day is celebrated in many countries across the globe, with couples exchanging gifts, cards, and beautiful messages to express their love and appreciation for each other. People share the most common gifts during Valentine's Day, including chocolates, flowers, jewelry, and sentimental cards.

Notably, the holiday has become increasingly mainstream today. Yet, despite the sometimes feeling of commercialization, Valentine's Day remains a special time for couples and loved ones to celebrate their love and strengthen their relationships.

15 Quick Facts about Valentine's Day

1. Valentine's Day 2023 falls on Monday, February 14^th. 
2.  Valentine's Day is a 14.7 billion dollar industry in the United States.
3. Women purchase 85% of Valentine's Day cards
4. Men buy about 73% of Valentine's Day flowers.
5. Thousands of people send letters to Juliet (from Romeo and Juliet movies) every year.
6. Teachers receive the most gifts during valentines, followed by kids, mothers, and wives.
7. The oldest known Valentine's Day letter is a poem written in 1415 by Charles, Duke of Orleans, to his wife. He wrote the poem while in the Tower of London prison.
8. The largest Valentine's Day event occurs in Verona, Italy, where tourists flock to see the balcony where Romeo and Juliet had their famous conversation.
9. Men primarily receive cards, watches, cufflinks, and ties as Valentine's gifts, while women receive cards, flowers, jewelry, and handbags.
10. In Japan, it is the women who gift men on Valentine's Day. They commonly gift them fine chocolate, known as honmei-choco. However, men usually return the favor on White Day on March 14th, one month after Valentine's Day.
11. Valentine's Day in Finland is called Ystävänpäivä, which translates to "Friends day."
12. Valentine's Day is not a public holiday in most countries. But it is primarily recognized and celebrated.
13. Valentine's Day is the busiest Day of the year for florists.
14. About 6 million couples get engaged on Valentine's Day every year.
15. Americans essentially celebrate and show love to their pets during Valentine's Day.

15 Valentine's Day Quotes for your Family

1. "Knock, Knock! It's Valentine's o'clock! You're my favorite person and rock!" -Unknown*.
2. "To me, Valentine's Day is not merely limited to a lover but speaks of universal love." -Dimple Kapadia.
3. "A mother understands what a child does not say." — Jewish Proverb.
4. "They invented hugs to let people know you love them without saying anything." - Bil Keane.
5. "Sweet treats on Valentine's Day help us remember to be sweet to each. And you're one of the sweetest kids ever!" — Unknown*.
6.  "The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness." — Honore de Balzac.
7.  "Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn't show up on x-rays, but you know it's there." – George Burns.
8. "A man loves his sweetheart the most; his wife the best, but his mother the longest." -Irish Proverb.
9. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller.
10. "All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt." — Charles Schulz.
11. "Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world." — Lucille Ball.
12. "Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold." — Zelda Fitzgerald
13. "Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, only with what you are expecting to give—which is everything." — Katharine Hepburn.
14. "Love is an endless act of forgiveness." — Beyoncé
15. "Love is not only something you feel, but it is also something you do." — David Wilkerson

Importance of Valentine's Day Celebration

1. Valentine's Day Offers Perfect Opportunity to Celebrate Love

Valentine's Day may not add much to a healthy, strong partnership. The partners are likely already showing love and appreciation, communicating effectively, and caring for each other's needs. In such relationships, Valentine's Day may not give them much pressure.

However, while couples may be having a good relationship, life's hustle and bustles can deny them the opportunity to connect and celebrate each other. Valentine's Day provides the couple opportunity to celebrate each other and connect more. 

2. Valentine's Day Can Strengthen Relationship

We cannot deny the joy of receiving flowers, candy and chocolate treats, and Valentine's Day cards, among other presents, on Valentine's Day. However, the real benefit of valentines goes beyond gifts; it is spending quality time with your loved ones. Spending time together is vital to achieving a satisfying, healthy relationship.

3. The Holiday Builds Assurance

One of the surest ways to strengthen a relationship is but showing appreciation. Your partner can always use an extra thoughtful gift that shows them you appreciate them. Let your partner know you appreciate their love and support, and watch your relationship strengthen.

You should not assume your partner knows how much you love and value them. On the contrary, relationships grow when couples openly communicate their gratitude for each other.

4. It is a Good time to Celebrate Your Milestone

Valentine's Day is a great time to celebrate your successes in a relationship. Discuss things you have accomplished as a couple and what obstacles you have overcome, and mark them. Of course, it is okay to celebrate your milestone since a healthy relationship takes a lot of work. However, observing the growth in your relationship improves your link and boosts your happiness.

5. Celebrating Valentine's Day is a Sign of Investment in the Relationship

We all want to be loved. We also wish our loved ones to invest in us just like we invest in them. This is especially important when the relationship is new, and the partners are learning to communicate. Valentine's Day is an excellent time to show your partner how serious you are about your love and connection. Taking time to plan something beautiful for your partner shows commitment and dedication.

6. A Happy Relationship Reduces Stress

The best part about Valentine's Day is that you spend time with people that love and appreciate you. Such moments can boost happiness, especially when you experience stressful times in school or your job. According to research, being in a healthy relationship is therapeutic. A good relationship can also reduce cortisol (a stress hormone) production. Less stress is associated with better health, both mental and physical.

7. Strong Social Ties Can Prolong Life

Did you know solid social ties can improve your lifespan? This is not just applicable to romantic relationships; good relationships with family and friends have numerous benefits too to our overall health. Based on research, happy couples experience lower risks of Alzheimer's disease, diabetes, depression, another other health issues. While so many factors determine how long one life, being in a workable, happy relationship is meaningful.

8. Valentine's Day is a Good Time to Celebrate Friendships

Most people not in romantic relationships find Valentine's Day difficult since they believe it is a time to celebrate couples. They may feel bombarded with love, marriage, and romantic messages. You don't have to avoid Valentine's Day if you are not in a relationship; it is an excellent time to celebrate with family and friends in your life.

Strong, fulfilling friendships have many benefits, just like romantic relationships. True friendship can be the backbone of your life and even help you make vital decisions. You don't need a romantic partner to send a card or flowers or prepare a lovely valentine's dinner.

9. Come up With a New Tradition During Valentine's Day

While traditions are practiced every Valentine's Day, you and your partner can create your tradition to celebrate valentines. For example, you can try a new recipe if you and your partner enjoy cooking. You could also watch a movie or visit the less privileged if that is what you love doing most.

10. Enjoy Restaurant Special

Most people enjoy going out on Valentine's Day. It is a great time to take a break from your regular duties and unwind. Find restaurants in your locality offering special offers and enjoy them with your partner.

11. It's a Great Day for Small Businesses

Valentine's Day is the 5th largest consumer spending occasion in the United States. Cards, flowers, and candy are the most popularly sold items, among other products. However, you don't have to buy expensive gifts to make your partner happy. Shop Small to support your local businesses.

Parting Shot:

In conclusion, Valentine's Day has been celebrated for centuries and remains a necessary time to express love and affection for those close to us. Whether through romantic gestures or acts of kindness, Valentine's Day celebrates love in all its forms.

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